So long story short, I'm 2 months out of a long term relationship that I ended, and I have been on tinder with a month, and finally went on a date with a guy (he messaged me first)that I had been messaging consistently everyday for a few days ,then he asked me out after 3 days - the date went quite well, obviously I was nervous at first, he definitely was too, we ended up walking for almost 3 hours, and towards the very end he asked me did I want a tea or coffee but the coffee place was closed so when I got to my car, he said it was nice to meet me and that he will be in contact, which he did, he messaged me that night asking me how I was after the walk, plenty of smiley emoji, it was late though so he didn't reply to one of my messages but he did last night at 7pm (just the next day) saying sorry that he dozed off and asking me how my day was etc but I did start to question things after him only taking 20 mins to reply in between texts to taking almost an hour for the last 2 texts, AND no mention of a 2nd date even though he asked me first if I had any plans, I stupidly sort of said I would be meeting with my friends and going for walks but as advised by my room mate I just left it at that and didn't ask him a question, ok he did reply but no question either and then the last reply I said to him was any plans for the week and he responded "No not really. I'd be wrecked most days coming home from work. I better do my own shopping tomorrow or I'll be tired and starving 😁" so tbh I don't really know what to make of it because I had high hopes after he bothered at all to text me after our first day and he text yesterday too first even if it was at 7pm, oh mention he enjoyed the date too but after I said ot first so maybe that's not a great sign but he is all questions about me when he has been texting, do you think that he maybe thought I wasn't that interested , is he waiting for me to initiate a second date, should I respond to his text or should I not and see if he messages me?