Neighbours fawning over DH in silly way

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Not a stealth brag before anyone says anything. He's nothing special 😂 but is a very lovely bloke who always helps out.

Neighbour is a lady about 20 years older than us, let's call her N. Always asking him to do things around the house. We adore her to be honest, she's one of my favourite neighbours, always laughing and she makes a public joke of how she fancies DH.

N also says her daughter thinks DH is lovely and the fight over him, her dd is closer to our age.
Never really bothered me until new neighbour moved in cul-de-sac next to nice neighbour

DH was in bed Sunday morning and bang on door about 10am. He gets our of bed to go answer.

It's new neighbour, who says N has recommended DH if she needs anything doing round house and she has noticed him doing a lot of DIY in the garden.

Our garden has 6ft fences which means she's been watching him from her upstairs window.

I don't mistrust DH. But I've not seen this new neighbour. Have no idea who she is and am a bit pissed at her for knocking on at 10am on a Sunday asking him for his number for diy shite.

This was 2 weeks ago and he said he would go round with his number. He hasn't.

But now everytime he's in the garden I'm wondering if this woman is at the window 😂😂😂

I just don't know if I'm being A grumpy cow or not. It was funny at first but it's wearing thin

Op, you have mentioned N is a Jamaican lady, in her culture and those similar, the sense of community is huge, it was likely just more of a cultural slip up.
Making new neighbour comfortable by telling her abit about the other neighbours and in that came the farming out of your DH.

Since new neighbour hasn't returned, i would give it no more head space.

If new neighbour does return asking for favours, all DH need say is "No, I'm sorry. I occasionally do things for N, but other that I'm not able to help. Sorry"

Done.

Was the new neighbour drinking a can of Diet Coke whilst looking out if her window?

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Hang some of these on your washing line.

N has recommended DH if she needs anything doing round house
Unbelievably cheeky!
He needs to stop being the patsy.

What’s going on, is it the summer heat . This is the third thread someone’s posted about their neighbour fancying their husband.😂

@Andylion

N has recommended DH if she needs anything doing round house and she has noticed him doing a lot of DIY in the garden.

I don't think that I would be happy if N had recommended my DH to help another neighbour. It's not her place.

I was going to say this. It's not on.

" NDN, you'll never guess what our new neighbour did; she turned up here at 10 am on Sunday morning to call on DH's free services as a handyman ! Can you imagine the bloody nerve! He's furious!"

Should get the message across.

Buy some huge y fronts and hang them on your washing line...

@Aprilwasverywet

Buy some huge y fronts and hang them on your washing line...

Um...might that hinder rather than help?

A woman in her 50s should be more than capable of putting some ikea furniture together unless she's disabled. I'm older than that and assembled several ikea items recently. I only asked my husband for help a couple of times, and I might have asked my dd if he hadn't been there. She is being sexist, imo.

If someone knocked on my door at 10.am on a sunday they would get ignored - same as anyone else without an appointment.