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What should I do?

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jcx1 · 06/06/2021 13:47

I'm 19, he's 27. We work together and see each other most days. He's pretty quiet/shy and generally keeps to himself but we talk quite regularly and he's lovely. We make each other laugh a lot too. I know he's single and want to ask him out but I've never had a relationship before so don't know what I'm doing. I don't want to make anything awkward if he says no and I'm not even 100% sure if he's into me. We tease each other a lot and I catch him looking at me quite a bit. I just really like talking to him and want to get to know him better.

So what should I do?

OP posts:
SunbeamsAndMoonbeams · 06/06/2021 14:17

Just ask him if he wants to go out for a drink. Literally just, "Do you fancy going out for a drink after work one evening?" when you've been talking and laughing. Don't make a big deal of it.

Don't even worry or think about a relationship, just a drink.

If you get on well in work he'll probably be quite up for it. Especially after the last 14 months or so!

Sideorderofchips · 06/06/2021 15:27

Ask him out. You don't know if you don't try. Good luck!

WatieKatie · 06/06/2021 15:41

Could you suggest a coffee or walk one lunchtime?

jcx1 · 06/06/2021 19:35

Thanks guys Smile Currently waiting on my ID but as soon as that arrives I'll ask him if he wants to go out for a drink. Hopefully he says yes haha.

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seensome · 06/06/2021 19:52

I would wait until he asks you, make hints, ask what he's doing after work but from reading some of the similar threads on here, it hasn't gone well and they've been rejected then you have to face an awkwardness at work, If a guy wants you he'll ask.
Some men just like to flirt at work, it doesn't always mean they would like to date you, I could be wrong but just making it realistic.

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