Went out with LO and friend to the seaside had such a lovely time as LO had been asking me to go since the beginning of lockdown. We got out early in the morning so we could spend a decent time there and leave to get back home for 9ish.
Got back and as you can imagine LO is restless even though hes had 2 naps which he usually doesnt anymore. Anyway I tried to get in to the house but OH left the key in the door so couldn't open it, so had to call him and break his sleep to do so, even though I've mentioned this a million times. He opened it and went straight back to bed.
I took LO into the bathroom to sort him out and stuck him in the bath with the shower running, I was in the kitchen and could see him. I started sorting out the sandy clothes to stick them in the wash, LO was slightly moany cz he wanted me to hold him but still fine.
OH come downstairs and starts commenting on random crap. Then hes like hurry up and sort him out hes been in the shower ages, I said he needs a proper wash because hes got sand in every crevice. He kept ignoring what I was saying and started swearing and telling me to leave everything and sort his son out. LO started getting more agitated hearing the argument which fustrated OH and he kept swearing at me I got annoyed and repeated the same swear, he then threw LOs battery powered toothbrush at me with force it hit my forehead and landed in to the bathtub just missing LO.
Hes now said that my family and friends cant have contact with LO and hes going to tell them to fuck off. He does say this often when hes angry.
Hes just ruined our perfect day