So my mother loves attention and always has to be involved in everything. She often gets involved with mine and partners life and will ruin certain things with her attitude. For example before Christmas she was going on about Mobile phones and asking what do I think my partner will get me I was like I don’t know it doesn’t really matter.. fast forward to Christmas Day my partner got me a mobile phone and she was in my face saying I knew you was getting that, he told me before anyone if it. Wasn’t for me you wouldn’t have got that.. obviously it was nothing to do with her but it just winds me up I just feel like it doesn’t always have to be about her .. I asked my partner to not tell her in future..
Anyway I have a feeling my partners going to propose soon and today I was on video call with a family member and my mother was there with the family member and she was talking about exciting times ahead etc then she said “don’t worry I’ll pick you out a nice Diamond ring” my family member on the phone had a face like thunder and shook there head and was like WTF keep quiet (they thought they turned the camera away they’re not that tech savvy) then I felt weird so ended conversation ..
I feel really weird now cos I don’t actually know if my partners going to propose cos generally it’s meant to be a surprise but it’s in my head now and I want to tell him what my mother said.. but if he is proposing I don’t want him to get upset and let my mother put him off.. but at the same time why does she do this?
What would you do?