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Feeling unsure of my relationship...

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CoffeeCupz · 28/05/2021 17:56

I'm thinking this is grass is greener type scenario, been together 9 years this year got together young, I love him but sometimes feel I'm missing out on a deeper connection?? He is always a night owl I'm a morning person we also have diffrent sex drives but I know relationships are not meant to be perfect. I enjoy cuddling and wanting to near him I do love him still I just question if this is all it will ever be kind of thing? Sorry if I sound silly.. We both work full time and hardly see each other much this dosnt help as fall into the routine off work and life taking over... I'm just reflecting I quess and makes me question what I'm getting out of it anymore?? All we can do is be happy but another part me dosnt want to throw it all away but then i shouldn't stay for a sunk cost fallacy, what if there is more out there I could be happier?? .. Please any advise or opinions..

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Singlenotsingle · 28/05/2021 18:03

Sounds like it's time for you to put your big girl pants on and talk to him about it. There's something missing, isn't there? Is he happy? Does he want more out of the relationship? Sometimes it's no one's fault but it's just time to agree to move on.

CoffeeCupz · 29/05/2021 07:52

He's happy just I keep thinking is this all it will ever be but then is this not the way all relationships end up after years together?? I just keep questioning it all :/ xx

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