Hi
I wasn’t sure whether to post on here as a male as I could find a thread from a guy so hope it’s ok as could really do with some female advice....
About 8 months back, we had a new girl start on my shift I wasn’t attracted to her but got on well with her and never thought anything of it
We always assumed she was a lesbian seeing as though all her display pictures are with the same girl and another girl who I know is friends with her on Instagram and said she posted a big happy 7 year anniversary post up with the same girl but she never said anything to us about her relationship or sexual preference which obviously isn’t a problem so no one asked her
2 weeks ago she made a comment to me about how she’s saving for a mortgage but how difficult it is trying to do so as a single person
Then as of last week, she messaged me saying she thinks me and her would be really good together and she can’t wait to see me at work......I replied back saying is she being serious but didn’t get a reply back....
Went back to work and she was really bubbly and acting more louder and outgoing as normal
Wednesday I went out to watch the football with my mate and she messaged me asking am I watching it, then asking me how old is Adam on another shift is, and said “my gosh there is something about him” I said you wanting me to find out if he’s single she commented “maybe” even though I’ve just found out he’s married with kids
I’m so confused with her actions and not really sure what’s going on!?
I’ve also started to develop feelings for her 🤦🏼
Thanks for any advice