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How to quell any doubts about her feelings for me?

6 replies

LeiaoPT · 27/05/2021 15:23

I've been seeing her for over a month now. Things are going pretty well, at least for me, and I really enjoy the space we have and the fact things are being rushed.

She's told me she's not into PDA (me neither) and this shows when we're in a group setting. Sometimes she'll touch me or lean in closer to me, but she won't kiss (again I'm not bothered about this). She also told me she's anxious and over thinks a lot.

The one thing that raises a flag somewhat is when she told me 'I'm worried about you because I want you too much'

I asked her what she meant and she told me "I told you, because I want you too much". I asked her a last time and she insisted "I've told you". I don't think asking her again'll be a good idea...

A good sign is that we've organised our third date for this Saturday. I told her I was looking forward to it and she replied 'Me too :)'

Even as write this I feel I'm over thinking...

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WeekendWishes · 27/05/2021 15:26

I would feel a little uneasy about the wanting too much being verbalised at such an early stage. If she considers it a problem, then I would too, people usually know themselves far better than you can guess at.

Blue4YOU · 27/05/2021 15:27

Are you 12?
You sound like you are pestering her

ItsNotLoveActually · 27/05/2021 16:14

I would read it that she wants you, i.e. sexually attracted to you. The fact that she said said she is worried about you implies (to me) that she isn't sure about you yet and may jump into something too soon. It's a bit odd that when questioned about it, she didn't simply explain. Maybe she's just dangling a carrot.

OldEvilOwl · 27/05/2021 16:16

Sounds like she wants to take it slowly so don't push for more than what she wants, and just try and enjoy it for what is is. How old are you both?

Palavah · 27/05/2021 16:17

You've been on two dates. You need to chill out.

AryaStarkWolf · 27/05/2021 16:21

It sounds like a flirty kind of stupid thing people say to each other at the start of relationships, grilling her on it is a bit weird tbh

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