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So confused and need advice

5 replies

browny1981 · 23/05/2021 23:44

Where to start ! So I'm 6 months pregnant been with my partner for 4 years. Since I was about 8 weeks his behaviour started to change. Over the last 2 weekends he has stayed out both sat and sun night at a "mates" I've never met. We booked 4 days away self catering tomorrow and kids are so excited. He's gone again no contact phone off. I called him out on his behaviour this morning on rhe phone and he just didn't come back home. I have to take the kids away they'll be so disappointed but i know i will hate it and be upset. He's basically stonewalling me. My instinct says he's up to no good and I am devastated he has done this. I just need hand holding because I am shocked and upset and lonely. I dont know what I did to deserve it.TIA

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OrchestraOfWankery · 24/05/2021 07:59

So he gets to swan off at weekends leaving your DC and his 6 months pregnant partner to go god knows where? Then stays out of contact?

Sod that. He needs to grow up, and fast.

pog100 · 24/05/2021 08:24

@OrchestraOfWankery

So he gets to swan off at weekends leaving your DC and his 6 months pregnant partner to go god knows where? Then stays out of contact?

Sod that. He needs to grow up, and fast.

No, he needs to leave. This isn't a relationship that's positive for you. You don't say if the other DC are his but I think I'd split now before the birth. This man is a shit. You don't need him. I'm sorry but enjoy your holiday without him and plan the future. It will be bright.
browny1981 · 24/05/2021 08:32

Sorry I dont mean to drip feed it's just lonnggggg lol, the other DC aren't his this wasn our first planned baby together that's what's so confusing why act this way now !

OP posts:
OrchestraOfWankery · 24/05/2021 08:32

No, he needs to leave

I totally agree - but with a child on the way, OP is in need of plans for arrangements around the birth. I mean she needs to know about care arrangements for the other DC.

It may well be best, however, to cut him out completely. Seems there could be OW in the picture.

AnneLovesGilbert · 24/05/2021 08:43

Do you live together?

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