So I’m posting for advice because I’m not sure what to do.
I’m also not sure how much information I should post should it be identified but I’ll try my best.
So me and boyfriend of 2 years have recently been going through some hard times. These past few months he’s really been making an effort again. I genuinely thought we we’re moving forward in the right way. Then about 3 weeks ago he went cold again, he told me it had nothing to do with me. He’s going through some things, so I gave him some space, let him know I’m there for him.
He eventually told me what was wrong with him, it was something that would change his life but better our relationship. So anyway that happened and he found it difficult, again I gave him his space. The other day he came round mine for dinner and to stay. We slept together but he still fell off. In the morning he kind of expressed he’s finding it hard. He told me it was pointless me being around right now and to not say anything because no doubt I will say something retarded. I was so shocked he even said that, I went upstairs to cry? Not sure why just made me feel really shitty because I’ve been trying.
I told him he was extremely rude, he told me to not be dramatic and it ended in an argument. He said I make everything about me, but I’ve only ever been supportive? We now haven’t spoken for a couple of days. I was going to get in touch to explain how he upset me but I feel like I’ve done a lot of the emotional labour? We do have a child together