My husband likes a drink and quite frequently flies off the handle for no reason and rips into me over nothing, and I mean nothing - could be something as simple as not knowing what takeaway I would like! Gets that bad that he punches the walls and destroys them and makes me feel like shite. I do absolutely everything for this man, he does nothing but lay on the sofa all day even when he comes home from work that’s all he does, doesn’t help around the house, I do all the cooking , all his DIY that he claims he’s going to do but leaves it for months (I don’t nag him to get it done because it would cause more problems). He’s lost his sex drive since he’s stopped taking coke and now I’m lucky if I get sex or attention once every two months! I love him but starting to despise him and I don’t know how much longer I can live like this. He’s currently going through a bit of a custody battle of which I have stood by his side and been supportive but he appears to be a narcissist , I do whatever I can to be there for him but it’s just not good enough. He’s really started to put on weight and if I’m honest I think if given the choice between eating or having sex he would rather eat! Is he libido dying because of his weight and worries or am I living with someone with a split personality? I know 110% he’s not cheating and I know he loves me and he has said he suffers from depression but that’s no excuse for the way I’m treated