Before lockdown my DP reconnected with a group from his old workplace. The group included one man and five women.
At first I had no problem with this really. But I soon became suspicious about him with one of the women. He would only talk about her and then it became apparent that he used to fancy her when they worked together but nothing had happened between them.
What really annoyed my though was when we were on holiday he came a across a rock on the beach with her initials on, took a photo and sent it to her saying something like ‘now I know what you get up to on a weekend!’ She replied saying ‘it wasn’t me 😜’ and he replied ‘don’t lie Miss Smith (not her real name) the evidence speaks for itself....’
I didn’t find out about this until he accidentally let slip that he was messaging her privately and not as part of the group. He doesn’t message any of the other women. Just this one.
Am I being dramatic to be worried about this? He says I am and that I’m trying to stop him from going out with his friends. It’s just coming to a head a bit now with lockdown easing.