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No sex for 4 years

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Minkeychops · 20/05/2021 05:09

This is tough to write but my husband and I haven't had sex for 4 years. We have a 6 year old son and I feel like I'm living with my brother

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Minkeychops · 20/05/2021 05:13

Don't know what to do

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EvenMoreFuriousVexation · 20/05/2021 06:32

Why are you still there?!

What have you tried so far? What treatments has he had?

DrDreReturns · 20/05/2021 06:34

Does he refuse you when you initiate sex?

CassandraTrotter · 20/05/2021 06:34

I think it depends on the trains, but youre obviously unhappy.

Have you spoken about it? What's the issue? What's been tried as a solution or compromise?

CassandraTrotter · 20/05/2021 06:35

I meant I think it depends on the reasons. Not trains.

fallfallfall · 20/05/2021 06:36

Would you consider having a simple conversation with him?
It’s been 4 yrs, we should get back into the swing of things. Can we try having sex on Saturday evening?

Starlia · 20/05/2021 07:09

Is he not interested in sex at all? Does he want physical intimacy? What happens if you initiate sex? Are you wanting to have sex with him - do you love him?
Hard to respond without a bit more context but it sounds really hard to live like that.

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