Mayday!! Need an opinion guys!

[peanutttttt]

So currently I am this mans house who I'm going on a date with, he's really sweet and has been sweet to me since we've started keeping in contact with each other. BUT, he's 35 and failed to mention that he still lives with his mother and that he smokes which I don't care about either sorta. Idk guys. This is our first date and im starting to think it will be our last. Help!!

@peanutttttt trust your gut.

If you are already having doubts then say goodnight and go home.

I’d say WTF are you thinking being in a strange mans house on a first date? Been there on date 2 and got the bruises.

He’s not what he said he was, book a cab and get the fuck home.

Why are you at his house on your first date, is his mother there?

Get the hell out of there if it doesn't feel right.
Next time, first dates in a public space.

Keep safe.

Smoking is a total deal breaker. OLD? This should be in his profile.

Cigarettes, cigars, cigarillos or a pipe?

He kept it from you for one of 2 reasons

1. He know it is an issue

1. He doesn't have any idea it's an issue.

I'm not sure which in is worse. Sorry

Run for the hills. Yuck.

Have you asked why he still lives with his mum? He could be saving for a deposit to buy, or just put of a previous relationship where they lived together.... or he could be a lazy bastard who likes someone else to pick up his socks and cook for him. You need to find out which one!!
Also as per pps, why are you at his house on a first date?

Next thing you know he'll be inviting you upstairs to look at his 50 shades of beige zipped cardigans.

Walk away now before you're hypnotised by tales of his mums cooking and his sta-prest trouser selection.

Hello everyone I met him at his house so we could ride together to the restaurant because I am not from the area. Also he moved back in with his mom because he's a chef and you know due to the pandemic restaurants were closed. The date was really nice and he was a complete gentleman, and he's currently looking for places so he can move out. Therefore I'll continue to date him.

@LostInManchester

Cigarettes, cigars, cigarillos or a pipe?

Bong.

I met him at his house so we could ride together to the restaurant because I am not from the area.

At his suggestion? It's just intended to make it easier to get you in for a shag at the end of the night.

How does it even make sense? How is finding someone's home address in an area you don't know easier than finding a restaurant?

Be more sensible than this. On a first date, always be in control of your exit. And meet in a public place.

Why would you go to the house of someone you have met on the internet for the first time?

If you continue to OLD you need to be safe