I'm absolutely fine and not struggling. Just wanted to see your opinions on this guy. It never worked out because of his reluctance to talk about things. We dated for 3 months. Then a small thing made him blow up. Stopped speaking for 2 days.
Then we were sorted it. All good for 10 weeks. It seemed he was window shopping and I wanted to know if he was wasting my time. He got abit flappy about it and delete me from Facebook. Stopped talking for 2 weeks. I was abit upset but was ok.
He came back for 2 days but soon ran away again when I told him I wasn't interested unless we had an adult conversation about what sort of relationship he wanted. He was saying some strong serious commited things yet acting very differently sometimes.
He couldn't do the conversation and blocked me and ran away again. 8 weeks since we last spoke. I thought he was long gone and then Sunday night my phone pinged. It was a friend request from him. I was kinda what the heck as we hadn't left things great. So I asked him if he meant to send it. He said I wanted to know how you are? So I sent back that I was fine and how about himself? He said he was fine thanks. I said good. Went to sleep. Not heard since.
I'm absolutely fine and not asking for advice on blocking him. Not wanting to start anything up again.
But why an earth has he gone out of his way and then not even tried to make a conversation. It seems odd for the way we left things for him to make out he was wondering about me then I'm ok thanks was enough to not bother any further
What do you think his plan is?