Hey ladies, after 11 years of a relationship (6 of marriage) and a little boy, I joined tinder. I met a lovely man, with a similar history, we got on well and had same values and views on the big things. Because of covid we didn't meet each others families/friends. 3 months in he's gone quiet on me. I haven't heard from him in 4 days which is unusual, normally we could go a couple of days with no contact but this is the 5th day. He did warn me very early on that for 2 months of the year (currently in the middle of it) that he works 13/14 hour days. I called him late last night, but no answer and no contact today.
I'm thinking the worst but I'm not sure if this is because the shit I've been through. The last time we were together (1 week ago} we had a lovely evening, I made him a special dinner and he spent the night. I've asked my friends thought but they're extremely protective so looking for some impartial advice. Am I being a fool? Should I leave him be? Or am I over thinking things.