Myself and my husband have been having problems recently. He's not behaving quite right, I've tried to address the problems and he will not. But I have a family funeral this week and asked if he will collect our nine year old from school so I can attend. His reply was should be able to, I asked again as he has let me down for a family funeral before which turned into somewhat of an argument and he reminded me that he wanted to abort our daughter. Apparently I was desperate for her and would do it alone which I would've, he left that day he said it and didn't come back until she was 4 months old. But as such he doesn't leave me to fend for us both when he lets either of us down, I chose it. I'm incredibly hurt on her behalf, my own too. I feel like I should be outraged but it's not the worse thing he's ever said if I'm honest. I've asked him how he would bring something like that up now about a child who loves him, it being truthful should have no validity now nearly ten years later. I think I should leave and take her with me, close the door, am I over reacting or correct?