How do I get my mother help? It's so hard to talk about this because people would think WTF. I don't want to drip feed so I'll cover as much as I can.
My mother has always been a compulsive liar. Fake illness diagnosis', like cancer and how its inoperable and will die but its not true. During school years I pulled out to support her because who would lie about this? She was happy enough to see me throw my education down the drain to feed her delusions. She would never let me go to appts to support her. Me and siblings believed her for years, then eventually we found out when our dad got taken ill and she became his carer, an assessor asked her about her health and she said it was great no underlying heath conditions that would impact her as a caregiver. We asked her things after she was deemed fit to be a carer but she maintained she still had it, she would shave her hair.
As children we knew not to question her as she would get angry or not provide things we needed or hide items from us.
She has lied about so much, big things that can get people in trouble if they were true. Almost everyone she knows is a drug user which also isn't true. She's accused me behind my back of doing drugs in the toilet found out when sibling has told me which is also not true. I no longer live there so have very minimal contact. She won't give me her number I've gave her mine on a paper and find out the dog ate it or it got wet and had to be thrown. Just to see my brothers I have to have an excuse otherwise she will say no. I feel helpless and so bad for my siblings