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What would you do? Advice needed...

27 replies

DLC46 · 12/05/2021 18:54

I've been with my partner for 9 years - we have a 6 year old DD.

It was his house when I met him, and he won't buy a house together or put my on the mortgage.

We aren't engaged and no signs of getting married.

There's a lot more to this story... cheating, lies, drugs etc.

I'm 33 and I want all the normal things, house/marriage/more children.

What would you do? Am I being taken for a mug?

I would have to go back 'home' to my mums until I sorted my own place etc. I work and so no need to panic money wise...

But I'm so scared to start over again?

I guess I want the happy ever after and I definitely would like another child - is this in reach?

Feeling really down and anxious. Head is all over the place x

OP posts:
sunnyzweibrucken · 14/05/2021 00:32

All those years of lying and cheating I wouldn’t think you would have to ask that question-> LEAVE. There are better men out there

quizqueen · 14/05/2021 00:37

You've wasted 9 years with a cheating , liar druggie!

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