I'm not particularly bothered by this but really could see it coming. I'm just a bit 
I started dating someone. He asked after a week or so if we could be boyfriend/girlfriend. I said i was happy to be exclusive because I already was and would be anyway but labels so soon make me feel a bit anxious. We agreed that we were exclusive, and would see how it went but with a view to being together if it worked out for us.
I don't do drama. Genuinely. I don't get jealous, I don't message incessantly, I like time to myself. I have friends, hobbies, children, work - a full life.
He told me that he was quite enjoying being with someone where there was no 'drama'.
Anyway, FF 2 weeks and he ended it!
And why?
Because he couldn't cope with the lack of drama . He felt unsettled because I wasn't anxiously messaging to ask who he was with and what he was doing - which has been his experience of women.
Because I'm not 'needy'.
He just said it completely threw him and he didn't know where he stood with me. it made him feel that I wasn't interested.
Meant to add, it's not the first time.my 'independence and self assuredness has been a problem for men. I can't believe that jealousy, drama and, effectively, co-dependancy are actually desirable relationship models for some.
Honestly, It feels like I just can't win!