Snoring. Not me, my partner. I've just spent the last 2 nights awake listening to it. Over the last year it's got worse and worse. Every week I'm being deprived of sleep and wake up shattered. Last night I roamed the streets until 3am then sat in the garden. I turned my key in the door and yet again all I hear is snoring, so I took the car keys and walked straight back out and sat in the car until 5am. I'm exhausted to the point of tears and here's the rub, he refuses to acknowledge there's even an issue with his snoring. In his head it's me with the issue and it's all about how I need to go and do something so that I can sleep at night. But I CAN'T sleep at night because of his snoring! He will then accuse me of sleeping all day and that's why I can't sleep at night and I should stop sleeping in the daytime. Well if I can't sleep at night or in the daytime when the hell am I supposed to sleep? Practically every night I have to wake him up to make him stop, I've told him several times I wake up exhausted because of his snoring, and all he says is this is the first he's ever heard of it being an issue. It's not. The problem is he just buries his head in the sand and refuses point blank to acknowledge his snoring exists . I even recorded it last night and played it back to him. He told me that couldn't have been a recording of him because he was awake when I recorded him snoring. He even told me that I'm just mad and I'm like living with a nightmare. How the hell do you deal with an issue like this with someone who doesn't even acknowledge they snore, even when you record them? I've just texted him at work begging him to talk to his Dr about sleep apnea and to go to the chemist and get some throat spray for snoring and at least try to take proactive action himself to try and help, but in my heart I know he'll come home with nothing and I'll lay awake all night again and he'll tell me it must be my fault I can't sleep because I'm not tired. I don't want this to be the end for us but there's no spare room, it's a studio. My only escape is walking the streets or the cold car. I even got told off last night for setting the car alarm off for 3 seconds when I got in. I just don't see a way forward with someone who will not even accept they snore. I can't roam the streets again tonight, I'm exhausted by this nightly sleep deprivation and just want to cry. Why can't he see his snoring is causing problems in our relationship? I don't even want to share the bed with him tonight because I just want to sleep but I can't go anywhere. All I'm after is some compromise but all I seem to get us that it's all about how I need to go and do something to tire me out because it's my problem I can't sleep. In his head nothing is about him considering perhaps hus snoring gas got progressively worse, it's all about how it's everyone else around him who's the problem. I'm even weighing up asking him to leave if he won't address it and do something about it, but I don't want snoring to end our relationship. How do I stay sane please?