What am I going to do? I am fond of bloke-I-have-known-since-I-was-15, but not in love with him, plus he keeps sending me horribly graphic letters outlining what he wants to do with me in bed! Which makes me think 'Ewwwww STOP that, yuk!' (I amm old and prudish)
but the one I REALLY like has just said he loves seeing me and it could have been different if I'd gone out with him years ago, but he is reasonably happy with his long distance girlfriend, and I think he has no feelings left for me at all so I will now avoid him because it's rather painful and I feel like I'm seen as trying to tempt him when I see him.
I cannot get the hang of this whole relationship thing, I have two kids already and fear that ol' shelf is a-beckoning!