i seperated from DH 2 weeks ago due to his controlling behaviour and his treatment of DS.
in the last couple of days he has been trying very hard especially with DS, he has phoned him from work and chatted to him, he came round last night and watched tv with him while i put dd to bed and he is having him to stay on friday night where he is living.
we have both now told ds that we are seperated, dh said to ds "i want to be your friend and im sorry ive not been very good towards you" ds said its ok dad i know things have been very hard for the last couple of years with what has gone on. i filled up when i heard them talking like that.
its ds birthday today and dh is taking him and some friends to mcdonalds, i so hope this is going to be a permanent thing cos i dont want to get my hopes up, dh said he has been doing a lot of thinking and knows he has to change, we are back at relate next weds so im hoping that will address some of his behaviour towards me.
but im so pleased at how he is towards ds.
in the meantime we are staying seperated cos i need toknow this isnt a flash in the pan sort of change. but its looking like theres hope.