I met a man on OLD recently. We met three times, each spaced a couple of weeks apart. In between we chatted by message a bit om some/most days.
On the third date I went to his house. He had made lots of effort, prepared nice dinner etc. I made it clear I wasn't staying over but we cuddled/kissed/film and seemed to have a great chemistry. He messaged me when I got home, all good.
That was two weeks ago. The following few days he didn't initiate texting, so I sent him photos etc and he responded very quickly. So i thought he may be shy so I asked him if he'd like to come to mine one evening for dinner/film. He said yes he would like to but would check his work diary. I said 'great, let me know'.
When he didn't respond with a suggested date I wrote him off mentally. But then he kept initiating messaging. Asking how my week was, telling me about his kids etc. He went back to messaging almost daily. He said I made him laugh etc.
Now it's been nearly two weeks since I saw him, even with 50:50 custody of his kids and he's told me a very busy and stressful job, he still hasn't asked to see me or suggested a date to come to my house in response to my invitation.
Would you just bin him off? I'm confused as to why he's initiating messaging etc and saying he finds me funny, sending kiss emojis etc but not getting a date in the diary to see me...