Someone else on my mind 24/7

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Hi everyone....

I met this other guy (D) about 2 years ago before this relationship. We used to hook up casually. We didn’t go out formally for dates. It was discussed; just never happened. I think I was so willing to meet up because of how I attracted I was to him physically... he was so hot and there was sexual tension every time!

Anyway, now and then, on Snapchat, this guy pops up still, asking how I am etc. He’s not on any of my social media to know I’m in a relationship. He comes into my mind pretty much daily, as I felt we had such a strong physical connection and I just fancied him soo much. I just feel like we never took it seriously enough mutually.

Anyway, I’m asking for advice on what I do with this situation. Blocking my be the right step? Is it just list because sexually, I feel frustrated? Part of me still enjoys the wait of wondering when this guy will pop up. Should I be in a relationship?

Thanks for reading xxx

OMG l am in a similar situation. He said he was now looking for something serious and long term so no longer wanted a FWB with me. We could never be together long term because l am 20 years older and he wants a family etc etc. However, l can see that he hasn't deleted my number on WhatsApp. To be honest l quite like fantasising that one day he might get in touch again. I should probably delete and move on but like you he occupies my fantasy thoughts frequently. I've decided l can handle the dreaming and there's no need to block. I just live in hope but not seriously so it's ok. If l were you l would leave things as they are as this keeps your options open if he does contact you again. What fun, don't stress!