My younger sister is 18 and I've always looked out for her because she's a shy, timid girl who lacks assertiveness. She agrees to just about anything to avoid conflict or upsetting people.
At uni she was approached by a guy 10 years older (mature student), he kind of showered her with compliments and sent her a card saying how much he liked her.
She told me she wasn't that into him and not attracted but she started dating him anyway (feel to shy to say no, which she would have preferred to do).
Fast forward a few months and this guy is asking her for money all the time, just the odd couple of pounds here and there. He lives in a grotty bedsit with a shared bathroom which is absolutely filthy, she dreads visiting him. He's also starting neglecting his own personal hygience, she says he makes excuses not to wash his clothes (too busy usually), wont clean his teeth and stinks of BO. My little sister is so pretty and adorable, takes a lot of time in her appearance. It breaks my heart to see her with someone like this. He just seems like a sponger and taking her kindness and generosity for granted. WWYD?