So I posted a couple weeks ago asking whether I was being unreasonable to ask my sister to give me some notice when she is calling to my house. I had moved in the past 6 months and she had started turning up unannounced more frequently so I sent a very pleasant message asking her could she just let me know beforehand. She was knocking on the windows, came in the back door etc. The thing is she would hate if I did this to her. She hates unexpected visitors so I always ask first if she is available and never just turn up at her door. I have a 14 month old and she has two older kids.
Anyway, she seemed fine initially with my request but then proceeded to give me the silent treatment for 2 weeks ignoring my messages. She eventually broke this when I outright asked her was she ignoring me (I feel stupid for doing this in hindsight). She messaged back and said no everything was fine. Now bear in mind, me and my sister are like best friends. Spoke several times a week. I have always been there for her and she has been there for me.
Since then I have tried to arrange to meet and she has been very vague with the details and never followed up despite me saying what days suit me etc. For example i messaged Sunday and asked could I pop down to her one morning during the week, she said that she was doing her garden and that maybe Thursday or Friday and she would message me Wednesday evening. I said ya Thursday or Friday suit me and a few more messages and she never opened the messages and didn't message me back.
I am really hurt that she could ignore me for weeks and also angry that it feels like she is just cutting me off. I have never dealt with this and am so baffled as to what to do. I know there is nothing I can do so I suppose this is just more looking for some support maybe.