What’s wrong with me

[Magic1525]

Just feeling fed up and thought it might be good to get some outside perspective.

I’m 32 and single, ready to settle down but nobody seems to wants me.
I dated someone for 3 months, thought it was going well then he actually ghosted me, never found out the problem. Now I’ve been on a few dates with a nice man, we had fun and it felt easy, went to his house and it looks as though his ex still lives there as all her stuff is still out as if she never left (I’m 100% sure he’s single) and I don’t want to be a rebound or a consolation prize. I’m pretty easy going, not massively attractive but think I’m a nice person. I can only assume I’m extremely boring or my body is disgusting or I have some other terrible flaw I’m not even aware of which means I’ll be alone forever.
Not sure what I’m asking but just feeling a bit sick of it all

Hey OP, it’s not you. You just haven’t found the right man yet, which I know is frustrating when you feel ready for a serious relationship. But you can’t force it to happen, life isn’t like that.

Have you asked the current guy why there is a woman’s possessions in his house? If he gives you a reasonable answer, perhaps just see how it goes with him, as you’ve said you like him. If you’re not happy with his response though, don’t hang around.

IME the harder I try to meet someone, the less likely it is to happen. So don’t forget to look after yourself, concentrate on work and friends and hobbies. Good luck 💐