I reconnected with an old boyfriend before lockdown , about 6 months prior . He moved back in with his wife although they are separated during the pandemic but since Christmas he is travelling for work with an exemption. He is staying with his female co -worker during this time . When he is with her I barely hear from him at all . An odd text a few hours a day . He has excuses like phone is dead , driving her about to get stuff in garden centres , do shopping as she doesn’t have a car . I have gone from feeling loved and cherished by this guy to him not having the time of day for me. He denies a relationship but it smacks of one to me . If I say anything he tells me I’m not trusting , passive aggressive, he can’t win etc etc . I admit at times I probably am a bit PA or cutting because he makes me feel like dirt .
I have been deliberately not contacting him the last 2 days and he hasn’t even noticed . We are in different countries so we can’t meet .