He walked out on me when I was 5 months pregnant with our second baby -completely out of the blue.
He has always been unstable with me regarding contact. He's changed his job multiple times over the past year meaning he only sees our youngest for 3 hours once a week (he's breast fed). Our eldest stays 2 nights. I've always been accommodating with childcare and it's changed a lot recently because of his new jobs. I've done it to keep the peace but it's actually really bothering me now. I feel insecure and controlled by him.
He's spar his dummy out multiple times over the past year about the baby. Threatening to take him off me, threatening court, threatening to go to the HV because he doesn't believe what I say. The list goes on.
He's been quiet recently, but I knew he was biding his time until baby was one. He has just told me he wants to go from 3 hours to a full day when he turns one and he wants him overnight shortly after. I've told him it should be gradual. I'm so stressed with this. I feel so under pressure by him. I've done everything for our baby and he's acting like he knows him and what's best for him more then me!
Super stressed and just needed to rant :(