Someone recently asked me could I pinpoint the beginning of the end for my relationship with my ex.
We’d been together almost 10 years, we had a DS who was less than one, who my ex never helped with, I was back at work, still trying to all do the housework and he told me I needed to sort my appearance out, I’d let it slip and it put him off kissing me.
Now I’d put up with a lot of things before this point and only after do I see all the other controlling behaviour. But with this something finally twigged in my head that I didn’t have to put up with a partner saying things like that to me. Alot of other bad things happened before I finally got the courage to leave, but I knew deep down after that point I couldn’t be with someone that did that to me.
Did anyone else have an exact point where realisation finally struck them?