Nearly 2 year relationship with chap ended last Monday, he'd had daily WhatsApps from a woman whose messages were always deleted, when I asked why, it was because he didn't want the innocent texts to look suspicious 
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Came to a head as I have planned a camping hol where my son was not keen at first in coming, so he said he'd come if son didn't. He got into the idea of coming. Son then decided he would come, so had to let bf know - I probably pointed out a few too many reasons why he wouldn't of enjoyed it anyway. So BF took it that I was glad son coming rather than him, which I am tbf. I couldn't hide that really, son and I are good mates and get each other, and friends and family coming too, plus we've all camped together and BF hasn't ever camped and is not tolerant with things that he doesn't instantly like. So he kinda ended it, though I'd gone off him about the texting, so fine.
Had lots of good times with BF over lockdown, a bit sad, I will miss him, but I guess he was just good for then and can't be trusted anyway in normal life.
Happenstance, that same Monday got a message out of blue from someone I kinda had flirtatious meets, but nothing more, since we first met and dated for a week 6 years ago - been a couple of years I think since we last met. Would never date this guy as can't see it would work, I'm probably last on his list, but he's short on options after lockdown, but that's fine lol as he doesn't feature on my list either. Just nice to get the old ego stroked after a letdown, onwards and upwards 😁. Great timing to be asked for a meet and a beer, makes me look forward to life in the other side of lockdown, bring on the summer.
So, when shit hits the fan with your relationship, hang in there, you never know what's going to cheer you up around the corner - or within half an hour, I had to laugh at the fab timing of the guys text.