Hi all.
So I’ve told my husband that I want a divorce. We’ve been together for 8 years and married 3 and have a DS (1 year old) together. After a DV incident last year we agreed to work on our marriage together. The issues were surrounding money and his spending, his drinking, his disrespect and emotional abuse and laziness. Things got better for a time but have gone back to the way they were. I’m done and there’s too much water under the bridge now. I resent him for what he’s done and how he’s made me feel and for me there’s no going back. I know I’d be mentally better off out of the marriage. I’ve explained this and was at first met with sadness, then anger, then sadness and now begging me for another chance. I’d be lying if I said there was anything he could do to make up for what’s happened and I’ll never be able to get over those things.
I want to be able to amicably co parent and get along as best as possible for our son but he’s moping one minute then angry the next. I do feel bad when he’s crying and pleading but just like I would any one who was visibly upset.
I guess I’m just looking for some moral support and of others have gone through that same that these cycles of anger and sadness do subside. We have to live together for another 2 weeks until he moves out.