I knew id feel like this.

[kkkazza]

Hi, my hubby had an affair over 18 months ago. were still together and im sure the affair was over the minute i found out. The problem is, it was with someone from his work.There are two factory's he's been working in one and her in the other. He hasn't since or spoke to her since i found out, Thats one thing im sure of... The two factorys were to merg into one in september and since its now november the merging as run over but it's going to happen in two weeks time for sure. For the last 12months he asured me that e wouldn't be going and i wasn't to worry, but i have worried because i knew all along that e would go because es only a labourer and get's paid over £9 an hour and he wouldn't get that sort of money any were else.One of the problems ive had is trying to get him to be striaght with me so i can come to terms with him going their.I feel like his been lieing to shut me up.2nd problem i have no idea how im gonna cope with him being there.please any advice i really need it. ps i have been on ea b4 but it was some time ago. u might remember my story.

i caught my hubbie up to something last year ...just over 12 months ago in fact (i posted my story on here too). I can't offer you much advice but I can relate to how you're feeling...doesn't matter how much he reassures you,you still feel something's going on behind your back? To be honest, i don't think those feelings ever go away but we do have to live our lives and try to learn to trust them otherwise we'll drive ourselves up the wall won't we.Thinking of you.Hope it all works out for you both.

Trust that's what i have a big issue with, well that and the b--ch who he had the affair with.I met her a couple of times before the affair started, we got quite friendly. I can just c that smug grin on her face when e walks in that place in two weeks from now.She will love every minute of it. I dont think she is gonna make it easy for either me or my hubby.Any way im sorry u had to go through something simular to me, and your right i dont think those feelings will ever go away either and yes we do have to get on with our lifes.