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Can anyone help with my issue

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Overwhelmed245 · 12/04/2021 21:56

I basically have quite a few issues I have pmdd endometriosis extreme fatigue undiagnosed autism/adhd. I struggle a lot with my self worth and confidence stayed in a bad relationship far to long as I thought it’s what I deserved. I’ve now been in a relationship for a year with the most amazing guy ever I’m very over obsessed with him I hide it will and remain normal but I have attachment issues and worry he’s going to leave or not want me. I know that’s silly and he’s very much In love with me but how do I help get over this and stop my extreme attachment. I get very emotional as my hormones are all over the place which dosnt help I’m off for therapy soon so I’m sure that will help. I just worry it’s only been a year and I’m so besotted by him in my head I’ve planned the wedding. He wants to move in soon together but I want to get everything under control before we do

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Jesskir89 · 12/04/2021 22:11

Relax woman! You sound a lot like me. Typical worrier and I think its a form of ocd tbh. Just relax and enjoy what you've got. Everything else will fall into place :)

PinkSpottyBalloon · 12/04/2021 22:43

Agree with pp, all will be fine

Improvementsunderway · 12/04/2021 22:50

Bless you... enjoy that besotted feeling for as long as you can! Wishing u all the happiness in the world! I hope in time you realize its nothing more than what u deserve!

Overwhelmed245 · 12/04/2021 23:24

Thank you so much all these comments have made me a little emotional honestly I’ve never been happier he’s the sweetest guy I’ve ever met. first time I stayed at his flat he brought me a new towel and then a hair dryer after I brought my own with me for the weekend. He rubs my back when ever I’m in pain and he recently brought me a really fluffy dressing gown for when I get cold so I don’t have to wear his one that’s way to big. It’s such a lovely feeling but I guess it’s also so overwhelming at the same time as it’s the feeling you dream off but never expect.

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Overwhelmed245 · 13/04/2021 20:28

Feeling better today about things but after a week on codine I’ve come off it and has sever stomach problems I got really upset and wanted to see my partner but couldn’t and then cried

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