Should I tell him

[Bangitup]

My ex dh cheated on me & we split up. He was seeing the other woman for a while then I foolishly said we could try again. After months of picking me up/putting me down it finally ended. He then pretty much started seeing the ow again. He doesn’t know that I know. Do I keep quiet or tell him I know? I hate the thought of him and all his family thinking “aww poor bangitup” and thinking I don’t know.
He has treat me shockingly, to the point that if we didn’t have children I would have cut him fully out of my life.

No walk away. Get on with your life and don’t entertain him ever again.

@Bangitup I understand where your coming from, I am currently living the same life right now and I so I know the hell you have been living. My wife is doing the same, she has bounced back between myself and the om a couple of times but now shes living in our home (with me) and openly seeing om. I don't have any words of advice for you other than to say look after yourself and try not to worry about what he or his family think, its just not worth it.

I am starting to understand myself that once there is someone else involved and they have had their head turned its very very hard to turn that situation around.

Do you know for sure that he is seeing OW again? Or do you suspect?

Thanks everyone, think I shall keep my mouth shut. He is not worth it.

Yes I know 100% he is.

Just live your best life without him - and should the topic ever crop up you of course can drop into the conversation that you knew he wasn't going to drop OW completely and, frankly, knowing she's involved with a married man with kids she's welcome to being treated as shockingly as you were by a cheat like him, and you're so pleased to have moved on it wasn't doing the kids any favours.

@Ariela

Just live your best life without him - and should the topic ever crop up you of course can drop into the conversation that you knew he wasn't going to drop OW completely and, frankly, knowing she's involved with a married man with kids she's welcome to being treated as shockingly as you were by a cheat like him, and you're so pleased to have moved on it wasn't doing the kids any favours.

Perfect advice from Ariela.

And OP, DW about what his relatives may or may not be thinking about you. That's a waste of your energy because you can't change what they might be thinking anyway.