Is my work colleague flirting or am i delusional??

[Freespiritxo]

There’s this guy at work I’ve known for a couple months, we talk here & there depending on if i work with him that day.

We’re always joking around, just banter and play fighting. yesterday we were by ourselves in a room alone and a conversation led to him telling me to feel his abs then I asked him to lift up his top in which he did and he was just flexing as men do, he also showed me his biceps 💪.

He told me he was in a very long relationship with a women, bought her a ring and decided not to propose and ended the relationship completely bc he was having doubts..

He’s such a nice guy, I do fancy him abit.. was just wondering if u guys think I’m just being silly..

He's totally into you!

He will be if he gets her in the cupboard alone again...

Yes he's flirting with you.
He wants to shag you.

Go ahead, you only have your job to lose. It's not like you have any self respect or anything.

@KirstenBlest thanks Kristen🙄

Well you are clearly flirting..cant see how you dont know that when you are literally groping him at work..all sounds a bit cringe and immature but you do you I guess ..

Is this a professional job? I am quite senior at my place of work (think law firm but not that) and if I saw two juniors "play fighting" I would not be happy and I would make it known.
Please establish yourself in your career, there is always men but if you get a reputation for not focusing etc, your career might be affected forever.

If you want a boyfriend, try to find one outside work

Where on earth do you work where play fighting goes unnoticed and unsubtle groping takes place?

Whether he fancies or not, keep the groping and stuff away from the workplace or you will end up being the victim of gossip forever more.

Be careful !! I was in your postion one time and the man involved made a fool of me...I thank my lucky stars I didn't shag him and nobody knows at work...I have to talk to him in my line of work when we are on the same shift together though...Otherwise, I have nothing to do with him. He fooled me once but he will never fool me again.