My fiancee and I have been together around 2 years now and were split up for several months but have been back together around 5 months now. He has never lived on his own and never really had no real responsibility. He makes decent money but has his own bills like I do mine. When we first started living together again we didn't go open a joint account but he was giving me his money to put toward bills. We just moved and rent and lights are higher now. He also knew I was getting a tax return and stimulus money so since we've moved I feel like I've paid most of the bills and even tho he spends money on us it's still not the same as putting it on the bills. He now will hand me money for bills but then says he has to pay his out of it also, so really there is none or not much left after he pays his. So it feels like he gives me money but mostly for his stuff. It took me awhile to get my taxes and I finally received them last Friday. We haven't been on good terms and so I haven't mentioned it to him as I know that the money needs to go toward my kids and things I need to pay off. It's not my fault he owes back child support on his kids and does not receive one. My stimulus money has mainly went to bills also. So last night he asked if I had received them. I said yes but trying to not even touch it right now. We were eating dinner at a restaurant and I could tell his attitude changed instantly. I asked if that made him upset and tried to explain I did not want to blow through it and his voice changed and he says I thought we were suppose to be on the same page with our money and bills etc so it kinda hurts you didn't mention it. I said again I'm trying not to bother that money. So he got a little better and we were having another convo and he turns around and I think intitnally says something where now my feelings were hurt and we started arguing a little and the next thing I know he is getting up and saying he is going to the car. I pay the bill and we leave without speaking on the way home. Arrive home and he says I'm going to bed I love you and did not kiss or hug me like usual. I woke up early this morning throwing up and he wakes up and starts getting ready for work 2 hours early so I ask what he is doing, tell him I'm sorry if I woke you and that I had gotten sick. He ignores me and goes outside to our pool house in his work clothes. I later start feeling okay so I get ready for work and he is still home. I arrive at work , text him like always and said made it to work.....I finally hear back from him 2 1/2 hrs later saying he stayed home and was assuming I was also. Now he seems like everything is fine while I'm sitting here at work angry and sad. Should I be upset about this or just let it go like he is apparently?