Its a new friend of mine and i mean new. A couple of months and I know her from running club (twice weekly) we've been on a couple of social nights and she invites me round a lot cos we have DD of the same age.
Anyway, she is married to her 2nd hubby ( who is a millionaire) and appears to have a very nice life. But on the occasions we have socialised, she always has to get home by a certain time. Then on Sunday, she asked me to pick her up for the long run, which i did, and when we finished, she was anxious cos we had been longer than she'd told hubby and so phoned him immediately. (whilst i drove us back) and he said that he was going to f-ing kick her arse,... and mine too Anywhoo, when i pulled up outside her house, he was stood waiting with his mate (they were off to play badminton and had booked a court) and he told her to "farking get inside cos he was going to smash her face in". Now, she has since assured me it was a joke but even in the best case senario of this being a joke. Its out of order isnt it? Infront of her new friend and his friend?
And as i drove off, i saw friend being kicked up the arse by hubby all the way into the house. Which again could be construed as joking but still, not very nice, is it? I asked friend if she was ok and not really in trouble at running club the following week but she kind of laughed it off and i wasnt so sure. Tonight me and DP have been to their bonfire party and afterwards, I shared my thoughts with DP and he says oh yeah he could tell a mile off. The guys a control freak and she has no choice but to oblige cos she likes the lifestyle that being with him affords her!!! This worries me! Shes lovely. But do i listen to partner and leave well alone? Or try and look out for her in some way?