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AIBU - New-ish Partner

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Crumpet73 · 06/04/2021 16:36

Hi all, I met my new partner on Bumble just before lockdown. He currently spends one week at mine and one week at his with his son (I don't tend to stay as I have my own children to look after). He's always been careful with money which is great, however, I wonder whether I should ask him to contribute towards my bills. He tends to cook for me, sometimes he brings some yellow sticker food and food that he has left over from the week he has been at his. Otherwise, he'll root around in my cupboards and use my ingredients. He eats much more than me, and I'm starting to feel as if I should say something? I purchased an Easter egg for his son but in return he has failed to bring anything for my children despite saying he would do so? Any advice appreicated.

OP posts:
MusicWithRocksIn1t · 07/04/2021 17:41

If you ask him to contribute and he starts staying less then you have your answer.

AhNowTed · 07/04/2021 19:13

Sorry OP, he is a tight-wad user and is taking you for a fool.

NO decent person would do this.

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