Just seen photos of partner with his ex when we were dating.. Help!

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I posted a few weeks ago that I noticed my partners ex blocked my business page on Instagram. I thought it was weird as has been 5 years and she never blocked me on fb. I knew as I have more than one account and like to give as much likes ect to my partners family business and saw her comment dispearwhen I used my other account. It Brought up lots of stuff I think I buried. I went on her account today for first time as it was private before so I looked and can see photos of them having dinner champagne you name it 2 months into our relationship..

I don't know what to do. I live minutes from where she lives. We suppose to get married in a few months but feel our relationship is built on a lie.
She has serious mental health issues and apparently would lnt eat so he would see her to get her to eat..

She would send msgs and call him when we moved in together and he said she was crazy I know red flag looking back. We have 2 kids now. I'm insecure as she hasn't moved on since then by looks of it and he said today she never got over him dumping her.

He adamant he wasn't sleeping with her when we were dating but he also said what proof you got and tried to deny it was him till you could see his very distinct jumper in the photo.

In which case I think contacting her is probably really not a nice thing for me to do to her. An the triangulation theory. If he's so confident for me to call her up as he's saying I worry he's already spoken to her maybe. Heads spinning

Phone her off his phone, see how she answers.

How do you remember how many times I've asked 🙄 I guess new information has come up today and isn't as easy as relocating with a 1 and 2 year old with no money in the bank or family.. Today is first time I actually have some evidence he can't deny. Just want to here from people who have been through same. Sorry if me aksibg again has annoyed you. I don't have anyone to talk to hence re posting as I'm still struggling with it.

You've two options OP.

1. Get over it. It sounds like in fact, you were the other woman so if anything she's got every right to be pissed with you. Doesn't help much though really, you've still got a cheating ass for a partner.

1. You get a job. You start to stand on your own two feet and don't ever let yourself become dependent on another person again. Oh and of course, you leave, because history will probably repeat and you don't want to be left high and dry when he does move on?

I once heard, if you marry for money, you'll earn every penny. Pretty true isn't it.

OK, forget the two of them. The person you are now would not date him. So it's OK to make plans to leave, however hard and upsetting that is.