Controlling and abusive husband

[Jacobanddarcy1]

I am new to this but need some advice please. I have been with husband for 24 yrs, he has worked on and off for 13yrs. He is verbally, financially and sometimes physically abusive. He is convinced I am cheating. I have grown to resent him, but i sometimes think I'm the problem and that maybe I'm just not a nice person.

Please repost this in relationships and you will get so much good advice x

Thank you I will do xx

I've tried doing that, not sure how x

@Jacobanddarcy1 it’s in the right place now, giving this a wee bump and hopefully more replies be along soon. But rest assured, you are not the Bad Person. Your husband is a bastard, you should contact women’s aid and get a plan together to leave

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Report your own post op and ask H/ O to move it to relationships

He's definitely the problem.
Please contact women's aid and work on how to safely leave.
Make sure you keep changing passwords etc. so he doesn't see this.

@BadMudda

Report your own post op and ask H/ O to move it to relationships

It’s in relationships I reported it

Do you have kids, who owns the property where you live.
You definitely need to leave, he is the problem not you.

Thanks everyone for the advice, we moved to the present house 2 yrs ago and is in both our names, the previous house was in my name. We have 2 children, 14yrs and 7yrs

Thanks for the advice everyone, the previous house was in my name. We moved 2yrs ago, the house we're in now is in both our names. I have 2 children, 14yrs and 7yrs