I have reason to suspect my husband might have had an affair/be having an affair or really like a work colleague more than he should!
I won’t go into details of the whys of the above but he knows I’m uncomfortable with this relationship. We are going through a bad patch just now and he has been sent away to work (we are not in the U.K.) and this work colleague has to go with him.
He obviously is saying he isn’t having an affair/ hasn’t had an affair and doesn’t like this colleague any more than he should, however, I beg to differ with the things I’ve found out.
He has been honest with me and said on the days they are not working they will be hanging out together and will be having dinner at night together.
I’m not comfortable with this and he knows it. He says he will be spending time with her because it’s better than them both being alone, and then both sitting in their own rooms. I’ve asked him how I’m meant to feel about that, he has said “i don’t know how your meant to feel, I can’t help how you feel, what do you want me to do, would you rather I sit. In my room all by myself.
I’ve liked the fact he is being honest with me, he says he will be contacting me all the time when I’m away, said it’s just work, she is his boss etc.
I’m really torn.