What puts you off

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What comments has someone made that put you off them?

Being seeing someone for a few weeks, to be fair maybe it's loneliness I've hung around, conversation feels one sided and the sex isn't great for me (they are used to it...another story). But one comment that made me nauseous, we joked about smells and they said, 'I went in after a friend who had done a poo and smelled the air.'

Don't mind crude humour but that just made me want to vom.

Honestly do not stay with such a person because you are feeling lonely. Raise your relationship bar here through counselling if necessary because you do deserve more that that.

Better to be on your own too than to be so badly accompanied.

Thanks!

Yeah that is not a very appealing image. Makes them sound immature.

Raise your standards.

Ugh. He sounds fucking horrible.

Sounds like my ex. He had a very juvenile sense of humor and talked to me like I was one of his male friends. Never changed even after mentioning it. Trust me it only get worse from there.

Seems like he's not for you anyway, I agree him saying that is only going to give you more of the ick than he is already.

What puts me off? Can't remember a specific line but men that want to generalise me before even knowing my opinion gets me mad! Any immaturity as you described is really off putting.

Time to ditch him!

I wouldn't like such a vulgar comment.

Don't settle out of loneliness, op, you are worth more than that.