Hi everyone,
This is my first post, it may be a little long so I do appreciate anyone that has spared time to read and answer.
I started dating my partner in November 2019. He lied to me about speaking to his ex friends with benefits, he also met her and when I asked him if he had he said he couldn't remember. I asked him to block her and not to contact her as their relationship made me feel uncomfortable. I still found out he was messaging her and she was messaging him too until late April 2020. I then asked in May if he had blocked her and he said he had. I then found out from his friend at the pub that his ex friends with benefits was messaging my partners friends to ask about him more than 5 different times. When I confronted him again about this he admitted it was true. I now have no trust in the relationship and have tried my best to let it go but I can't. My partner also took £130 off his mum for painting her living room and he is an office worker so not a professional. I said that he should not have taken the money as you should help your family where you can. Would you stay with this person? Why or why not? Thanks in advance x