Husband breaking lockdown

[Hermagsjesty]

My DH has been getting increasingly lax at following lockdown - he was meeting a friend outdoors for coffee then on one rainy day they moved it indoors, it’s now regularly an indoor thing - it’s now escalated to other friends joining them, indoors. It makes me really anxious & irritated. He thinks it’s a case of everyone has different boundaries - obviously the friends he’s doing it with & their partners are okay with it - & that it’s an “agree to disagree” but to me it feels like a schism in our values & it makes me think less of him as a person. Am I overreacting?

19 people died with coronavirus yesterday. We are at the point where people need to stick to the spirit of lockdown but not the letter

I'm not hysterical

@Equalityumber

This would be a deal breaker for me. Could you change the locks while he’s out having his coffee?

lol

I'm on your side, OP.
I've also had trouble being nice to friends who I know to have had hairdressers come to their house, who invite people for dinner, ...
It's the "I'm above you all" mindset and the non-respect of other people.

diwrnachoflleyn

Sorry for your loss but thank you for your sanity.

I know people who have lost parents but what they really need is their lives back.

@Equalityumber

This would be a deal breaker for me. Could you change the locks while he’s out having his coffee?

😂😂😂

@Pokske

I'm on your side, OP. I've also had trouble being nice to friends who I know to have had hairdressers come to their house, who invite people for dinner, ... It's the "I'm above you all" mindset and the non-respect of other people.

They want their lives back and feel this has gone on long enough. But hey, do them a favour and dump them as friends. Their lives might be better for it.

Change the locks 😂😂😂

World gone mad.

@IceCreamAndCandyfloss

He thinks it’s a case of everyone has different boundaries

People do when it comes to breaking the law, be it theft, speeding etc. I wouldn’t chose to be with someone who thought the laws of the country didn’t apply to them so he would be sleeping over at the friends house.

Probably be a blessing for them!

I'd think less of him as a person too OP, it would probably eat away at me.