Is he seeing someone

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Hi all I’m new to this so bare with me !

Ok a few years ago 2016 me and my partner broke up and he started seeing a woman who was an old friend (he says ) . We got back together she was still on his face book and I found a load of emails which they were sanding each other , nothing was in them to say they had sex or even kissed but there was a lot of flirting talking of shitty exes (I was one ) meeting up he was going to her house for dinner ect and he spent Easter there as he bought her kids Easter eggs she also bought him a phone .
When we were getting back together there was a convo between them him telling her I was on way down to see him at his place and he didn’t know what to do she replied shall I come and get u ? He said no and we ended up eventually sorting things and moving forward in our relationship. We both agreed to take her of his fb as I don’t think I could deal with her seeing his profile ect as I had spoken to her through text and she told me they were just friends which I found hard to believe ! Fast forward to now we have been on and off a few times since then and recently I have seen she is once again his fb friend and has been for the last year !! I’m not happy not because she’s on his fb but I was never told and he tried to hide her from me . So why I ask is she back on your fb again ? Has he been talking to her or even seeing her ? He is unaware I know and I feel he has been disloyal to me why does he want her as a friend so much ? I think I know why but so confused so any advice would be great 😊

I think you should be relieved he’s dating someone new because this relationship is well and truly done for. It’s clearly not working, and to top it off you don’t trust him. Time to move on

If they were more than friends as he was staying at hers over Easter and her buying him a phone, that's quite a gift just for a friend. The fact that you've been in/off is telling you it's not working out, I would think he's keeping her around, when it doesn't work out with you, he goes back to her, leave them to it, she can be sloppy seconds and he doesn't seem trustworthy anyway.

I assume you aren't together now? If not, it's probably best you block him. Don't waste your time on someone who isn't commited to you in the same way or you will forever be torturing yourself.

We split up a couple of weeks ago ! I havnt felt happy for a while . I’ve blocked him now after seeing their friendship was back on although it looks like it was back on last year he was with me but yeah il let him crack on do whatever he got to do and time will tell and the real truth will come out in the end 😊

You don't trust him. What difference does it make what MN thinks? You could spend a month on a thread with people saying 'Yes he is!' and 'No he isn't!', and you'll still be none the wiser. But you'll have wasted a month.

Move on.

Good grief, I don’t get the Facebook obsession. It wouldn’t even cross my mind to police my DPs FB friends. You sound really bad for each other so be grateful it’s over and go and find someone who suits you better.