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Can anyone help - what should I make of this?

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Intheweesmallhours · 26/03/2021 19:30

If you thought your partner was cheating on you and you voiced your concerns and now he was hiding his internet history and had changed his WhatsApp status so no one could see when he was online, would that make you more suspicious? I’m not sure if it’s just me being unreasonable?

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ItsNotLoveActually · 26/03/2021 19:35

Yep, very suspicious.
What made you voice your concerns?

Intheweesmallhours · 26/03/2021 19:42

He said he did it to see if I was checking up on him.

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litterbird · 26/03/2021 19:42

What made you suspicious, what made you confront him? Yes, its a reaction to what you have asked him about I suppose. It will make you even more suspicious now. Thats why many MNetters get you to take screen shots, get lots of proof before confronting so they cant deny anything or go underground with their shenanigans.

Mintlegs · 26/03/2021 19:43

He won’t mind you monitoring his what’s app messages then will he? Total transparency if you. suspect underhand behaviour

Intheweesmallhours · 26/03/2021 19:47

Oh gosh there was loads of things i found but they don’t actually point to cheating so I don’t have 100% proof.

I found out he had searched “how to delete call logs and text messages from your phone & how to hid text messages on to phone” his WhatsApp had fingerprint security but nothing else on his phone did. He was constantly on WhatsApp although I have to say he didn’t hide his phone, wasnt secretive with it apart from the WhatsApp. Constantly checking a work colleagues Facebook page, amongst other things.

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Intheweesmallhours · 26/03/2021 19:47

Sorry the above should say they don’t actually point 100% to cheating.

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litterbird · 26/03/2021 19:58

Doesn't look good OP does it? Sorry its a no go from me.

Lililou · 26/03/2021 20:02

I'd be highly suspicious OP

harknesswitch · 26/03/2021 20:04

He said he did it to see if I was checking up on him

So it's your fault then Hmm

Kittykat93 · 26/03/2021 20:06

So what did he say when you confronted him and asked why he had been googling how to delete messages etc? What's his reasoning?hes acting dodgy asf

category12 · 26/03/2021 20:08

Dodgy af.

Intheweesmallhours · 26/03/2021 20:17

Thanks everyone, he says he checks various peoples facebook pages out if they come up on his recommended friends.

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winterchills · 26/03/2021 20:19

Veryyyyyyy dodgy

DuchessOfSausage · 26/03/2021 20:25

Are you familiar with 'The Script'?

This behaviour is 'You're spying on me' to deflect that he is behaving suspiciously.

Your gut feeling tells you something's not right.

Closetbeanmuncher · 26/03/2021 23:56

I found out he had searched “how to delete call logs and text messages from your phone & how to hid text messages on to phone

Definitely hiding something to do with another person and their exchanges.

he says he checks various peoples facebook pages out if they come up on his recommended friends

Hmm my guess is that every page he checks out belongs to a woman though right? Sorry OP but I think you've hit the tip of a very large iceberg.

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