Husband left 9 mnths ago citing a need for space, as is usual on here, OW eventually came out of woodwork a few mnths later. He wants me to divorce him on Unreasonable behaviour grounds, I think it should be on grounds of Adultery as that's what it is but he is claiming nothing physical happened pre him walking out but since admitted he has been in touch with her for over a year so IMO EA, who knows what the actual truth is, I am not even sure he knows.
Oh, should add he doesn't want her named on divorce papers!?
Am thinking he has lied about when he left or spun a BS story about how we lived under one roof but separately, no sex etc, the usual tripe they trot out.
All lies I might add.
He has moved in with her in a different county and is wreaking havoc re contact with kids but thats another thread entirely. So divorce for the actual reason or go unreasonable behaviour. Which is quicker? I want him out of my life but feel like giving into his request for grounds makes me look like I was in agreement to separate when in actual fact I was completely blindsided and have only just got to the stage of not obsessing over myself, him, her etc. So ready to move on, words of wisdom appreciated. Must point out, I am UK but not the mainland so different laws may apply.
Thanks in advance