Oh my goodness I can't take any more. My husband is leaving on the 3rd. Finally. When I told him I wanted a split he was sad but we stayed close. Talking and having a laugh. I thought oh this is going to be ok. Then last weekend hit. He drank a lot! Was a bit of a dick and I called him out on it . I was angry with him for drinking so much as it meant I slept only 2 hours. I have difficulty sleeping which he knows about. I was a bit nasty and said thanks for making this easier as I realise you won't change. 14 years together giving every chance I could for him to change. Anyway now he hardly talks to me or looks at me. He missed his daughters camhs meeting for a bike ride so I'm feeling very angry and want him gone now. I'm trying to stay calm but unsure how! I'm very ready to go on a full on rage at him and tell him to pack up and go somewhere now.